I hope that one day you will have the experience of doing something you do not understand for someone you love.Jonathan Safran Foer
from Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close
Love requires learning a new language--the language of the Beloved. "Do unto others" only works when we like the same things.
I need to know what makes my Beloved feel loved. Even if it doesn't make sense to me, if it works for Beloved, that's what matters.
May you one day know what it is to love someone so much that you are willing to do something for them just because you love them...and may your Beloved return the gift of Love to you.